Objective: To embrace self-awareness and growth by reflecting on past what-ifs, appreciating the present, making informed decisions, letting go of regrets, and using insights as motivation to take action, fostering both personal and professional development.
INSTRUCTIONS: BEFORE STARTING THE ACTIVITY, MAKE SURE TO READ ALL INSTRUCTIONS FROM TOP TO BOTTOM.
Think of a past decision you regret or an opportunity you didn’t take—one that still makes you wonder, what if? This could be a career move, a relationship choice, a financial decision, or any risk you hesitated to take.
Describe the scenario: Begin by forming a detailed picture of the moment in your imagination. What was the opportunity or decision you regretted not taking? Why did you choose the path you did? What were your thoughts and emotions at that time?
Imagine the alternative path: Imagine how your life might have changed if you had made a different choice. Would you be in a different place, with different people, or pursuing a different passion? How might this alternate reality feel—better, worse, or simply different?
Reflect on the lessons: Shift the focus to what you’ve learned from this experience. How did this decision shape your present? What wisdom or realization did you gain, even from regret?
Write your output in your Virtual Professionals notebook and it should be composed of at least 200 words.
Do not use ChatGPT or any AI tools to generate your output. However, you may use ChatGPT to check the grammar.
Important Note: As much as possible, do this activity when you are calm, not rushed, and when your mind is clear and relaxed. Avoid doing it during busy or stressful moments to fully benefit from the experience.
How To Send:
Using your VP Gmail, add the SUBJECT line: Activity 65: What If’s | VP Screen Name, and take a photo/s of your output and change the photo’s file name according to the sequence of the pages in your Virtual Professionals notebook. For example: Activity 65 (1), Activity 65 (2). Send it to info.virtualprofessionals@gmail.com and CC michelle.virtualprofessionals@gmail.com.
Goal: To reflect on past decisions and missed opportunities with a growth mindset, gaining valuable insights that foster self-awareness, resilience, and informed decision-making for the future.